Sahih Bukhari Volume 5, Book 63, Hadith 3827

وَقَالَ عَبْدَانُ أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ، أَخْبَرَنَا يُونُسُ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، حَدَّثَنِي عُرْوَةُ، أَنَّ عَائِشَةَ ـ رضى الله عنها ـ قَالَتْ جَاءَتْ هِنْدٌ بِنْتُ عُتْبَةَ قَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ، مَا كَانَ عَلَى ظَهْرِ الأَرْضِ مِنْ أَهْلِ خِبَاءٍ أَحَبُّ إِلَىَّ أَنْ يَذِلُّوا مِنْ أَهْلِ خِبَائِكَ، ثُمَّ مَا أَصْبَحَ الْيَوْمَ عَلَى ظَهْرِ الأَرْضِ أَهْلُ خِبَاءٍ أَحَبَّ إِلَىَّ أَنْ يَعِزُّوا مِنْ أَهْلِ خِبَائِكَ‏.‏ قَالَ وَأَيْضًا وَالَّذِي نَفْسِي بِيَدِهِ، قَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ مِسِّيكٌ، فَهَلْ عَلَىَّ حَرَجٌ أَنْ أُطْعِمَ مِنَ الَّذِي لَهُ عِيَالَنَا قَالَ ‏"‏ لاَ أُرَاهُ إِلاَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ ‏"

Narrated By Aisha (R.A.): Hind bint Utba came and said,"O Allah's Messenger (Before I embraced Islam) there was no family on the surface of the earth I wished to see in degradation more tha I did your family, but today there is no family on the surface of earth I wish to see honoured more than I did yours." The Prophet(s.a.w.) said, " I thought similarly, by Him in Whose Hand my soul is!" She further said," O Allah's Messenger ! Abu Sufyan is a miser, so, is it sinful of me to feed my children from his property?" He said, "I do not allow it unless you take for your needs what is just and reasonable."